Queen for a Day; Mother of a Monarch

Television Game Shows have quite a history and remain quirky, outlandish, addictive, comical and unbelievable.  As a child I was drawn to watching a black and white show where contestants, mainly "frustrated housewives", described their financial or emotional woes to show host Jack Bailey, the studio audience and anyone watching national TV at home.  Queen for a Day ran from 1958-1964.


     The winner of the best story, usually the most needy, was selected using an Applause
     Meter!  Players often asked for medical care for a child or a new refrigerator or washing
     machine. The "champion" was crowned, wore a velvet cape trimmed with ermine and sat
     on a throne holding a dozen roses while her prizes were listed.  "Losers" also received
     small consolation gifts.  I imagine that nothing could console women today watching
     old footage of that show seeing the pathetic portrayal of women and their stereotypical
     roles as housewives.

                                                      Note the "sexy blond assistant".

   However, as a nine year old girl I wanted to be a Queen for a day!  Of course, I assumed
   that following the TV show, one had free run of a palace and it's gardens, patting the deer,
   dogs and bunnies, getting lost in the maze and having everyone bow down to you.  For an
   entire day you could sashay about eating pastries and cherries as you waved your
   "Queen-wand".  And I bet there were many young lads who watched that show that
    wanted to win too!


                                                 "Kindergarten Children" Hans Thomas
                                                "Girl with a Rabbit" Felix Schlesinger

   I consider myself very lucky to have had a childhood of innocence allowing me to dream!
                                                       "Sympathy" Briton Riviere

     During the months of August and September  this year, we stayed around Bayfield, had a
     couple of day trips and enjoyed time with friends and doing lots of biking and gardening.
     As I welcomed Monarch Butterflies to my Milkweed plants I seized the goal of viewing
     their full magical metamorphosis. The Monarch population has been decreasing rapidly
     over the past thirty years and happily, now, is slowly coming back.


     When I was growing up Monarchs were common place butterflies, a beautiful symbol of
     summer in Ontario fluttering around with their butterfly pals like with Red Admirals,
     Mourning Cloaks, Skippers, Whites, Fritillaries and Swallowtails.  Around Milkweed
     plants, you were sure to see Monarchs, their the beautiful striped caterpillars and if you
     were really lucky, a gorgeous chrysalis late in summer.  Dad and Mark used to find
     cocoons of various moths and butterflies and hang them up in the kitchen where we
     could watch them hatch, dry and stretch their wings to prepare for flight.  One morning,
     I was the first one up and as I entered the kitchen, I was surprised to find a butterfly on
     the wing.  Catching her with some sugar water, we were able to release her into the
     flower garden.


     With excitement, I noticed a Monarch laying eggs on my Milkweed plants.  Not long after,
     there were a couple of 1 cm. long infants.  I observed their voracious eating patterns
     chomping huge sections of the leaves and quickly doubling in size   Every morning I
     went out to the "nursery" to check on them as the leaves disappeared and the caterpillars
     almost grew out of their "striped pyjamas".




    Suddenly, they were all gone!  I realized that the robins were also getting fatter.  I found
    two Monarch caterpillars crossing the road, saved them from possible doom and brought
    them home to my plants.  I built a netted enclosure to keep the youngins safe in their
    playpen and keep away the hungry birds.

                                                      Hey, we gotta eat too!

   In between my duties as a "Monarch Mother" summer continued on. The adequate rain
   and balance of sun produced amazing roadside wildflowers.










 
     
                                             Local barn gets new siding and sheep!



                                        Fields and skies begin to take on that Autumn look.

                                                    Backyard meadow.
                                                  Madame Dixie surveys her yard.
                                    Chris and I took a trip to Michigan to pick up some mail.
                                         The funnest part was lunching at this classic diner.
                                                 Hilarious vintage placemat.

                                                           Oh yum!....... NOT!!!!!



                         Folks traveling south were backed up at the border right over the bridge.
                        There are quite a few amazing Sunflower fields in the Lake Huron area.

    It was important to stay close to home to supervise my "striped bairns".  But I did spend a
    pleasant day in New Hamburg visiting Constance and dining out.  The black cat is a greeter
    in a lovely fabric store there. The stock and decorative antiques are housed in a huge old
    building with tin ceilings and gorgeous wooden floors.  It was like stepping back in time.

     Most readers know that I hate sewing but the rich colours, and patterns of fabrics lined up
     in colour-coordinated rows were so inspiring.  A huge workshop behind the retail area of
     the shop provides group classes for quilters and the walls are rich with their creations.

 
   
Between tending the gardens and preparing food with the tomato and herb harvest, I
worked on a couple of projects for Christmas gifts for friends and family.  When I
            visited Finn in June he was developing in interest in dinosaurs.  I had picked up a bag 
            of them at a charity shop a year ago so chose a few to gift him.  I created a canvas mat 
            and 3 landscapes with velcro so they could be played with and put away after.  I also 
            made a fridge magnet and a batch of Peppermint Bath Playdough. 








                                                Perfect storage bag, 2nd hand




      I decided to take extra steps to protect my Monarch caterpillars as they would soon be
      moving on to their next stage of life.  I prepared a large glass bottle with a couple of sticks
      and cheesecloth lid and went out to gather some leaves and WHAT?*#??!  My baby had
      been snatched.  Luckily there was a smaller one hiding under a leaf and I carefully
      moved him in to his new "safe house".  Each day, I supplied fresh leaves and to my delight
      a second caterpillar appeared.  She must had been so tiny and came in on a leaf.  Within a
      few days, they were hanging quite still, ready to perform magic.  I hoped to watch the
      process but only saw a layer of fine gauze swirling around them before an overnight
      transformation into a chrysalis.  The lima bean green with its semi-gloss sheen is
      beautiful but those dots of gold; stunning!





                            It would be a ten to twelve day wait for the transformation.

    Other things were hatching out in the garden, the annual march of the flying ants and
    the Bees' frenzied gathering of pollen for the Queens.  Wooly bear caterpillars marched
    everywhere.  We counted 48 out on the road one sunny afternoon in just a thirty minute
    bike ride.  I made sure that my tomatoes were not chomped by Tomato Hornworms
    like last year.  There were lots of butterflies about on the garden blooms.



















       Stratford Festival Theatre is only an hour away.  Linda, Wendy and I, sometimes
       known as the "Ham Hens" (we became friends through our Ham radio addict husbands)
       had a quality day trip where we enjoyed a picnic lunch and took in a play. The Avon
       River and its mighty trees is so tranquil.  The theatre gardens were tremendous and
       labeled with species names to educate.










        Wandering the gardens while people watching, we waited to hear the trumpets blast. 
        After the play we wandered down the fabulous garden and sculpture-lined pathways. 






Had to snap Sorel Etrog's "Large Bull" for you-know-who. 



         Our day was complemented with an impromptu barbeque dinner in the Frederick's
         garden.  "Unquiet meals make ill digestions." Comedy of Errors  "Good wine is a
         familiar creature, if it be well used." Othello  William Shakespeare






   Chris baked and decorated a yummy birthday cake for me!



   I saw photos on-line of flocks of Monarch Butterflies clinging to trees in 
   "Butterfly Park",Goderich.  They gathered  for their expedition out across 
                        Lake Huron and south to Southern California and Mexico.  I drove up a
                        few times to see them but never saw more than around twenty. The parks
                        are so beautiful to visit with their huge trees and sites over the lake, harbour
                        beaches and salt mine.






        Unfortunately, one of my cocoons turned black which indicates that the caterpillar
        was infected with a bacteria which kills them.  The other one looked good and one day
        began to turn transparent and the black designs in the orange wing could be seen.  I did
        not witness the emergence but found the damp-winged beauty hanging from the stick
        and took it outside to some flowers.  It hung overnight and when the sun shone directly
        on it the next afternoon, it began to stretch its wings.  I was a proud Monarch Mother!
        I hope he/she made the incredible journey successfully.







 
      We got some cute pictures of Finn and Flora from Australia to keep our hearts sparkling.







                     Mark and Dina often meet us half way between Toronto and Bayfield.
                     We shared tales over a fabulous lunch at the beautiful Cambridge Mill.
                     It was a spectacular sunny day with a light breeze. The renovated Mill
                     has a couple of dining rooms, and a huge venue for conferences or weddings.
                     They are all beautifully furnished and the natural wood and stone compliment
                     the huge windows that look out over the Grand River, dam, rapids and falls.
                     I would recommend a visit there and a stroll around the old town.






       As fall crept closer the days became shorter but the weather stayed warm.  We would
       usually be packing for our winter away but not this year.  We enjoyed the bug-free
       outdoors as my favourite season drew near.






                                                     Self-serve salad bar.











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